Maurice R. Stein (Maury) took his last breaths in the same way he strove to live— peacefully and surrounded by family in his Cambridge home. His passing was one last lesson after nearly 97 years of living, teaching, and loving.
Born in 1926 in Buffalo, New York, Maury saw worlds of change during his near century of life. Family members recall his tales of street cars and all Yiddish newspapers. He joined the U.S. Army from 1944-1946, serving in Okinawa and Korea. He worked there as a radio-telegraph operator, and even later in life would tap out messages in Morse code absentmindedly while reading. After the war, Maury attended the University of Buffalo and then Columbia University. Upon receiving his doctorate, he began a 50-year career teaching sociology starting first at Dartmouth and Oberlin, followed by 46 years at Brandeis University..
At Brandeis, Maury participated in several decades of rapid growth from its beginning as a small school staffed by a large number of distinguished intellectuals who fled Europe during World War II and talented others to its present incarnation as a world-class research university. In the sixties, he helped plan and chair an innovative graduate sociology program. This is when he met his colleague and decades long close friend, Morrie Schwartz. Their friendship was beautifully chronicled in the books Tuesdays with Morrie and The Wisdom of Morrie.
Maury was a fierce advocate for civil rights, women’s rights, and world peace. Both of his children remember frequent trips to protest on Cambridge Common. He also stood out as an advocate at Brandeis, sponsoring an early queer studies course. Maury was especially proud of being part of the early initiatives to question canon literature taught at Universities and add in works by authors of color. His children also recall his passion for gender equality played out at home. His daughter, Ninian, remembers her parents constantly renegotiating domestic duties, striving to make them fair. His wife, Phyllis Stein, was Director of Radcliffe Career Services and continues to work as a career counselor to this day.
After witnessing his wife give birth to their daughter in 1977, he began teaching Birth and Death at Brandeis, a wildly popular course taken by thousands of students over the decades. This course explored the synergism between birth and death, drawing on politics, sociology, anthropology, art, literature, Indigenous studies, and spirituality while allowing students to breathe and meditate their way through the ambitious syllabus. This course countered the very American fear of death and gave a new, more beautiful and nuanced narrative, that many students took to heart and Maury embodied, even up to the moment of his own passing.
In addition to teaching Birth and Death he also taught Social Psychology of Consciousness (with Charlie Fisher), Sociology of Art and Literature, World Mythology and Literature (with Luis Yglesias), and Modernism and Postmodernism.
Maury’s books include The Eclipse of Community, Identity and Anxiety (with A Vidich and D. White), Reflections on Community Studies (with A.Vidich and J. Bensman), and, most notably, Blueprint for Counter Education (with L. Miller) which has been celebrated in libraries and art museums throughout the US and Europe. This three-dimensional intellectual history of social thought and change anticipated the Internet decades before its inception.
Maury was founding Dean of the School of Critical Studies at California Institute of the Arts and earned a life-long Research Contribution Award from the Community Section of the American Sociological Association. He considered the feminist movement, Buddhism, Bauhaus, Native American spiritualities, world poetry, and the global peace movement as key to his intellectual and pedagogical perspective. These myriad passions could be seen in his home, he had a collection of more than nineteen-thousand books, on every subject imaginable. He loved to share them with students, family, and friends. If someone shared an interest, he would disappear into his stacks and then reappear with a book for them.
During his fifty years of college teaching, Maury was a revered teacher who cherished the chance to interact deeply with colleagues and students. After retirement, he maintained his intellectual curiosity and passion for teaching. At Harvard Institute for Learning in Retirement, Maury found intellectual colleagueship and companionship, participating in and teaching classes for 10 years. In recent years he found himself in the midst of a mysterious passage into deep elderhood which included exploring the bodily, emotional, soulful, spiritual, cultural, political, tragic and comic aspects of this passage.
In Maury’s last years, struggling with Alzheimers he began to forget things. Even as he forgot what happened that morning, or when he gave impromptu lectures in the middle of the night, he remained so peaceful and loving. To paraphrase Fred Small, “When I run out of words, I will be only love.”
Maury is survived by his wife of 59 years Phyllis Stein, his son Paul, his daughter Ninian, his daughter-in-law Lauren Levine, and his granddaughter Rowan Stein-Levine. He is survived by many other loved ones in his mishpocha, including students Becky Thompson, Joanie Bronfman and Steve Dandeneau, and colleague Charlie Fisher.
Contributions in Maury Stein's honor can be made to the ACLU, Good Shepherd Community Care Hospice, or a charity of your choice.
Memories of Maury can be shared and found at https://www.forevermissed.com/maury-stein.